Six Goodbyes We Never Said, Candace Ganger

“The only thing consistent is change. We have to accept it or become our own enemies.”

Namia’s father didn’t come back from his latest tour, and she’s having trouble coping with the fact she will never see him again. Because she suffers from OCD, GAD, and PTSD it’s making things harder to deal. She’s so used to pushing everyone away, that when someone good comes along, she doesn’t know how to deal.

Enter Dew. He’s living with foster parents because he lost both of his parents in a car accident. That loss has manifested in avoidance and anxiety. His foster sister throws a lot of fits, so she can be hard to deal with, but you wouldn’t know it from the way Dew smoothly handles her. His foster parents are good people and they want the best for him. He wants to befriend Namia, but she isn’t making it easy. She thinks he’s weird and she wants him to stay out of her business.

I really liked Violet, she’s a great addition to the book and the author could even give her a book that I would most definitely read. When I read e-books, I highlight things that stick out or things that resonate with me, and there was a lot of highlighting done in this book. The book is beautifully written and it touches on so many real-life issues that people are struggling with (which I greatly appreciate).

Sometimes Dew seemed a little too “on”, a little too “perfect”, especially in the way he looked at his foster sister Faith. But the way he watched his family form was touching, I loved his positive view of the world and his acceptance to see what was under the surface.

I know this book wasn’t for everyone, it does get a bit tedious at times with some repetition. Once Naima gave Dew a chance, the book picked up and I would have liked for them to meet sooner. Despite those small issues, I loved this book. It was witty and poignant, and very thoughtful. Naima’s way of playing “Would You Rather” to stay connected to her father was amusing. She’s so much stronger than she realizes and I love how assertive she is. She’s actually really funny when you get past the tough exterior. I’m not sure where her PTSD comes from as it would be too soon to diagnose after the loss of her father, but as a sufferer, I can relate to her struggles. Very nicely done.

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